Alyssa Milano posted on Twitter: "If you ve been sexually harassed or assaulted write  me too  as a reply to this tweet." AP PHOTO
Alyssa Milano posted on Twitter: "If you ve been sexually harassed or assaulted write me too as a reply to this tweet." AP PHOTO

NEW YORK (AP) - Alyssa Milano was in bed with her two young children when a friend of a friend on Facebook suggested something that struck her as a great way to elevate the Harvey Weinstein conversation. She took the idea to Twitter, posting: "If you've been sexually harassed or assaulted write 'me too' as a reply to this tweet."

That was Sunday night. By Monday night, more than 53,000 people had left comments and thousands of women had declared "Me Too," sharing their stories of rape, sexual assault and harassment across social media, including some for the first time.

The hashtag was tweeted nearly half a million times in 24 hours, according to Twitter. Some left it at, simply: "Me Too," without explanation, and a small contingent of men have posted: "I Have," noting shock at the groundswell and remorse for their own past misdeeds.

Milano said the idea was to elevate the Weinstein conversation, placing the emphasis on victims rather than perpetrators and offering a glimpse into the number of women who continue to be victimized. The disgraced film mogul has been accused by more than three dozen women of harassment or abuse.

"My hope is people will get the idea of the magnitude, of just how many people have been affected by this in the world, in our lifetimes, in this country," Milano said in a phone interview with The Associated Press on Monday.


"The most important thing that it did was to shift the conversation away from the predator and to the victim."

Lauren Taylor hopes "Me Too" grows into something more than a passing hashtag. She shared her own story as well.

Growing up in Washington, D.C., she recalled near daily street harassment, from men yelling vile things at out of car windows to boys chasing her as she rode her bike. A longtime women's activist, the 60year-old Taylor founded a training organization 20 years ago called Defend Yourself, helping women learn "empowerment defense" to ward off physical and emotional attacks in all aspects of their lives.

"The 'Me Too' thing has had a transformative affect that is more complex than people probably thought in the beginning," Taylor said. "Women are disclosing that they've been harassed, attacked or abused, sometimes for the first time, and if it isn't for the first time, it's for the first time this publicly.

The sheer number are unbelievable, and a lot of men are saying, 'Really, that many?"' From New York where she now lives, 30-year-old Texan Aly Tadros added her voice on Facebook.

Evoking "Me Too," she said she was sexually assaulted at 19, by a bar owner years older than she was in her hometown of Austin. He had money and connections. Despite that, she went straight to the hospital, where police were called. She pressed charges but in the end he struck a plea deal that included court-mandated therapy, probation and a letter of apology.

Tadros, a singer-songwriter, considers herself among the lucky. She had the help of an advocacy organization in navigating the legal system. She could afford counseling.

Still, she feared the stigma, choosing to keep the attack under the radar both personally and professionally in the beginning.

"Most survivors don't press charges and I totally understand that, and those that do rarely make it past the grand jury," Tadros said.

"But I know I don't have anything to be ashamed of."

Milano said she has a "Me Too" story as well, but she chose not to share it at this time, hoping to put the focus on others.

"Really what's happening here is giving women the opportunity to come forward without having to go into detail about their stories if they don't want to," she said. "To see the numbers go up minute by minute, I get tears in my eyes thinking about it."